Glimmer of Light

I wanted to write about a topic that touches every one of us in some way, grief.

Grief is a subject often seen as dark, painful, and difficult to discuss. But I'm here to tell you that grief is not just a heavy burden; it's a testament to the power of love.

Jamie Anderson once beautifully said, "Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go."

Think about that for a moment. Grief, in its essence, is an overflow of the love that you carry within you. It's the love you long to share, but life, in its impermanence, often prevents you from doing so. It accumulates, sometimes quietly, sometimes tumultuously, in your heart.

Grief is the price we pay for love. It's a tribute to the deep connections we form with others. It's a testament to the richness of our emotions, the beauty of our relationships, and the value we place on those we cherish.

Now, I won't sugarcoat it—grief can be excruciating, and it can feel like an abyss from which there's no escape. But it's important to remember that grief is not a sign of weakness; it's a testament to your capacity to love, to connect, and to care. It's a testament to your humanity.

When we grieve, we're not just mourning the loss of a person or a chapter in our lives; we're celebrating the love we had and the impact that person or experience had on us. Grief is a tribute to the moments we shared, the memories we treasure, and the love that we continue to hold in our hearts.

Even in our darkest moments of grief, we find a glimmer of light. We discover the resilience within us, the strength to carry on, and the capacity to love again. Grief transforms us, often for the better, making us more compassionate, understanding, and appreciative of the love that surrounds us.

So, as you navigate the journey of grief, remember that it is not a sign of your pain but a testament to your love. It's an integral part of the human experience. Embrace it, let it remind you of the beauty of the love you've known, and allow it to be the compass that guides you toward a future filled with more love, more connections, and more cherished moments.

In the end, grief is not the end of love. It's a poignant reminder that love endures, even when the physical presence of a loved one does not. It's the legacy of love that continues to shape our lives and inspire us to reach for the stars, knowing that we are fueled by the love that has nowhere else to go.